Whether your better life is a paradigm of happiness or if you are plunged into the deepest of wells, this article will be of great interest and usefulness. I am completely sure of that. Such is my security in its usefulness. Seriously, I think the effort devoted to condensing the best teachings of my better life to this day has been worth it. Below I encourage you to add your own tips for living a better life.
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Know yourself well
An important cause of frustration is not knowing oneself properly. We lie to ourselves either because of ignorance of the truth or because we resist it. Do you feel trapped in a life that does not make you feel 100% happy? Take the red pill and wake up once and for all that nightmare in which you have been immersed for so many years. You have to rethink if the foundations that sustain your a better life are correct or not. Why? Because if the foundations are not adequate, the entire building will falter and, eventually, eventually collapse.
You must ask yourself a series of questions and try to answer them with sincerity. If you could be reborn which profession would you choose? What activity would you be willing to do without charging a hard one in return? By doing what activity do you feel happy? What capabilities do I have? What skills or talents do I have that differentiate me from the majority? What things do I do better and faster than most? Do I want to do that because I really like it or because I want to earn the recognition of others? Do I want such a thing because I like it or because it is well regarded by society? What is my definition of a successful life? And of a better life?
To answer these questions it is necessary to spend time reflecting and having a lot of courage because some answer can dismantle your whole life from top to bottom. But lying to yourself and living a farce will never bring you happiness, and if you are not happy that the hell you care about the rest. I personally would not like to be on my deathbed telling myself: “But what the hell have I done with my life! What the fuck did I care what others thought of me or what society considered a successful a better life? ” Think about it, because here lies the heart of the matter.
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Be yourself no matter what others think of you
We only live once and the better life we live is ours and no one else’s. Live your life your way and do not let others tell you how to live it. It is your special personality that sets you apart from others. Being different is not a bad thing but, on the contrary, it is your treasure. Do not let the social pressure mold you at your whim. Preserve your identity because it is your greatest asset. Your essence is your charm. When you show who you are without flaws, in a sincere and totally transparent way, you generate in others a confidence that brings you closer to them. It is the key that opens the door to your hearts.
Nothing, absolutely nothing, deserves to put your health at risk
Your health comes first, it goes above all other things. Obviously, you can say to put other things before your health, but it must be your conscious decision. Without health, although you can still taste better life, it does not taste so sweet. So the next time you’re going to do something crazy, think about whether it’s really worth the risk. Imagine a scale and put on each side the best and the worst that could happen to you doing the activity. What weighs more? Now you are aware of the pros and cons of what you are going to do, now you decide.
Every day when you get up, show gratitude for what you have
Greet the sun when you look out the window. Get up with a smile and think about the beautiful and valuable things you have in your better life. That gratitude will put you in a positive frame of mind that will help you face the new day. Think of your little daughter, your mother, your friends, your.
Spend some time each day thinking about death
I do not want to be sinister but this really is one of the best advice I can give you, let me explain it to you. Death is a natural process of a better life that we have to get used to, we have to make it part of us. We must always keep her in mind. Why? Because it is the reminder that we are here in passing and that, therefore, we must do everything possible to extract all its juice from life. It will be the push you will need when fear keeps you from doing what you want and fighting for what you want. Also, it will help you prepare for death. Better to die with a smile of peace and satisfaction than with a face of fright. Do not you think? The samurai knew this secret, I learned it from them and, now, I share it with you.
What has been said up to now is straw if you do not put it into practice? Everything you can learn from better life is absolutely useless if you do not apply the teachings to your life day after day after day …